Is the past important?

The past is our foundation. Where our seeds were planted, hence our roots-the beginning. Whether or not we survive what's coming, depends on what's gone, as it contributed to who we are right now. Whether the tree survives the storm, will depend on its upbringing. The wind has caused the root system to grow deeper, … Continue reading Is the past important?

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Why you should allow yourself to feel and express your emotions

One, too many times we are forced to be strong, for ourselves or for others. Showing and feeling emotions is seen as a weakness. Meaning anything we should be feeling is usually disregarded, masked or escaped, but is that good? They say distract yourself, keep yourself busy, focus on something else, remove the reminder from … Continue reading Why you should allow yourself to feel and express your emotions

When can you say it wasn’t meant to happen

If it happens, it was meant to happen. If it doesn't happen, it wasn't. So if it hasn't happened, does it mean it still wasn't meant to happen? Or is it waiting for you to make it happen? At what point can we say say it wasn't meant to happen? At what point do we … Continue reading When can you say it wasn’t meant to happen

Good, the mother of all wickedness

It all started with Eve. For it is all done in the name of "good", the good we want for ourselves, the good we want for others. The good gives birth to the bad. The good lives with the bad. The good is found in the bad. It is the good that makes us bad. … Continue reading Good, the mother of all wickedness

Lessons I learnt before my first varsity graduation

1. I shouldn't compare myself It started when I was in the same class with the person I once looked up to, he was repeating. Knowing he was a top achiever in high school and now this? There was no way I could make it, if he couldn't. Guess what? I made it. I realised … Continue reading Lessons I learnt before my first varsity graduation

Should we be ashamed?

Should we be ashamed? Should we be ashamed of being different? Not having what others have. Not living how others live or practicing what they do?  I mean you're different, most likely an outcast, should you be ashamed of standing out? Should we be ashamed of our backgrounds? As much as it is an involuntarily … Continue reading Should we be ashamed?

Take charge

If you want something as badly as you say you do. You should not be dragging your feet for every move. Show you want this, be in it. Rather not plan at all, if you won't plan and do. If it's circumstances, you can work around, what's stopping you? If plans failed, there's always an … Continue reading Take charge